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frustratedgirl
I can't handle this frustration anymore. For years i was teased in school and by my family about my small breasts.
I avoid girls with large breasts at all costs because i feel so inferior compared to them. All i wanted was a big chest so i could finally feel that i'm a woman.

Does anyone know a way to enhance my breasts apart from surgery? There must be something.. what birth control enhances them the most? Please help, i am tired of running away from the large breasted girls. I am so jealous of them, they have an easier life than me. I hate my body, the summer is coming and i already feel depressed thinking about what i will see. I wish i could wear cleavage. Even old ladies have big racks, why was i so unlucky.

So if someone knows a way to enhance them, i would be eternally grateful. Please help me, thank you in advance.
skindeep1991
QUOTE(frustratedgirl @ Apr 27 2013, 08:39 PM) *
I can't handle this frustration anymore. For years i was teased in school and by my family about my small breasts.
I avoid girls with large breasts at all costs because i feel so inferior compared to them. All i wanted was a big chest so i could finally feel that i'm a woman.

Does anyone know a way to enhance my breasts apart from surgery? There must be something.. what birth control enhances them the most? Please help, i am tired of running away from the large breasted girls. I am so jealous of them, they have an easier life than me. I hate my body, the summer is coming and i already feel depressed thinking about what i will see. I wish i could wear cleavage. Even old ladies have big racks, why was i so unlucky.

So if someone knows a way to enhance them, i would be eternally grateful. Please help me, thank you in advance.


So I popped back on here to see how everyone was doing and it's so sad to see all the negative things you girls are saying about yourselves. It's even worse that I was one of you just over a year ago and I hated my body, I'm glad that's changed.

I'm so very sorry you're frustrated and that you had to go through teasing. People think it's 'funny' but it's not, It creates this insecurity that you may not have had if it wasn't for the 'funny' remarks and 'joking'. You don't need a big chest to feel like a woman and size doesn't make anyone superior or inferior. I have a 13 year old sister with C cups and I see how hard it is for her to find items of clothing that make her look her age, She always says how she'd rather have my boobs then hers and it's really sad because I spent my entire life wanting bigger breasts. Breasts aren't everything as hard as it is for you to believe right now.

But saying that, I know what it's like too feel how you do about them so here's my advice in making them appear larger (bare in mind I wouldn't recommend all of these as an every day thing):
Bandeau bikini tops,
Halter necks,
There are various stores that sell triple padded push up bra's one I know of as I own a bra from there is 'La Senza'
Fillets, you can purchase silicone fillets and place them in your bra.
Bronzer: you can apply bronzer to where your cleavage would be following the shape of your breasts to create a look that makes them appear larger.

I hope those were of use to you to make you feel a little more comfortable in your own skin.
As for permanent enlargement you don't have very many options really apart from implants or injections. Both of which can have horrible side affects so you'd have to look into them and be 100% sure you'd want that done.

I'm going to link you to a blog that has helped me whenever I feel slightly down, so you can see that you're not alone and that small breasts can be beautiful too: http://theibtc.us/

There are ways to feel positive about your small breasts, make them something you love and care about. I got mine pierced and I haven't looked back since, I love them and I wouldn't change them. I also know girls who have had them tattooed and feel amazing because of it. If that's not something that you're into there are other ways to make them amazing too, Like buying sexy lingerie or wearing low cut tops bra-less, there are ways to make your small breasts attractive and there are items of clothes we can pull off that larger breasted ladies can't.

I hope you feel a little bit more positive about your body and your breasts as there's nothing wrong with them, you're beautiful and so are they. Small breasts are awesome <3[color="#4169E1"][/color]
melymay
QUOTE(skindeep1991 @ May 1 2013, 12:58 AM) *
So I popped back on here to see how everyone was doing and it's so sad to see all the negative things you girls are saying about yourselves. It's even worse that I was one of you just over a year ago and I hated my body, I'm glad that's changed.

I'm so very sorry you're frustrated and that you had to go through teasing. People think it's 'funny' but it's not, It creates this insecurity that you may not have had if it wasn't for the 'funny' remarks and 'joking'. You don't need a big chest to feel like a woman and size doesn't make anyone superior or inferior. I have a 13 year old sister with C cups and I see how hard it is for her to find items of clothing that make her look her age, She always says how she'd rather have my boobs then hers and it's really sad because I spent my entire life wanting bigger breasts. Breasts aren't everything as hard as it is for you to believe right now.

But saying that, I know what it's like too feel how you do about them so here's my advice in making them appear larger (bare in mind I wouldn't recommend all of these as an every day thing):
Bandeau bikini tops,
Halter necks,
There are various stores that sell triple padded push up bra's one I know of as I own a bra from there is 'La Senza'
Fillets, you can purchase silicone fillets and place them in your bra.
Bronzer: you can apply bronzer to where your cleavage would be following the shape of your breasts to create a look that makes them appear larger.

I hope those were of use to you to make you feel a little more comfortable in your own skin.
As for permanent enlargement you don't have very many options really apart from implants or injections. Both of which can have horrible side affects so you'd have to look into them and be 100% sure you'd want that done.

I'm going to link you to a blog that has helped me whenever I feel slightly down, so you can see that you're not alone and that small breasts can be beautiful too: http://theibtc.us/

There are ways to feel positive about your small breasts, make them something you love and care about. I got mine pierced and I haven't looked back since, I love them and I wouldn't change them. I also know girls who have had them tattooed and feel amazing because of it. If that's not something that you're into there are other ways to make them amazing too, Like buying sexy lingerie or wearing low cut tops bra-less, there are ways to make your small breasts attractive and there are items of clothes we can pull off that larger breasted ladies can't.

I hope you feel a little bit more positive about your body and your breasts as there's nothing wrong with them, you're beautiful and so are they. Small breasts are awesome <3[color="#4169E1"][/color]

Thank you for your post! I check in on here every once in awhile for a boost! I have a great loving boyfriend right now who knows every inch of my body and he says he loves my figure so I am a small busted girl with a guy who is very attracted to me so this is good news and something we all need to realize that men just love boobs regardless of size, that's what I feel he thinks anyways. Yaya!
Shaz
I'm delurking just to say how helpful I have found this thread. Thanks especially to skindeep for posting the link to the itty bitty blog below, I spent a couple days just browsing there a few minutes here and there and it is a great counterbalance to the usual media messages about big breasts always being better (as is this thread of course). I know a lot of younger girls come here but I'm 41, I've been fine with my small breasts for years (except when bra shopping--that has always always sucked) but I'm in a new relationship and a few comments here and there lead me to believe that the man I'm dating, while he likes women with all sorts of figures--including mine--at heart probably prefers bigger breasts. I haven't come right out and asked him, because I don't want to come off as that insecure, but sometimes I torment myself by imagining that he is pining after the girl with big boobs who just walked by and turned his head.

Anyway, to keep it more positive I will say that I usually love my little breasts and that just increases each year that gravity fails to touch them. Seriously, I've got a halter-style maxi dress from H&M that I wear during the summer. It's got a little shelf bra but basically provides very little support and I always get compliments on my figure when I wear it. People generally think that I'm much younger than I am and I'm sure my breast size plays a part in that. I've never wanted implants but I do sometimes wish I could fill out even an A cup just to make bra shopping easier (I'm probably a 34AA but have never owned a bra in that size, all my current bras are just stretchy Hanes bras in a size small). Checking out this thread and the itty bitty blog have inspired me to search for nicer bras that will fit me though!

suthapklomrod
I gave the methods inside a full test run over 6 weeks and with 2 weeks I had already started to notice a difference. It took just under 4 weeks for me to gain one cup size taking me from a B cup to a C cup. find more information http://goo.gl/psCTq
StephanieBPL
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skindeep1991
QUOTE(Shaz @ May 14 2013, 11:32 PM) *
I'm delurking just to say how helpful I have found this thread. Thanks especially to skindeep for posting the link to the itty bitty blog below, I spent a couple days just browsing there a few minutes here and there and it is a great counterbalance to the usual media messages about big breasts always being better (as is this thread of course). I know a lot of younger girls come here but I'm 41, I've been fine with my small breasts for years (except when bra shopping--that has always always sucked) but I'm in a new relationship and a few comments here and there lead me to believe that the man I'm dating, while he likes women with all sorts of figures--including mine--at heart probably prefers bigger breasts. I haven't come right out and asked him, because I don't want to come off as that insecure, but sometimes I torment myself by imagining that he is pining after the girl with big boobs who just walked by and turned his head.

Anyway, to keep it more positive I will say that I usually love my little breasts and that just increases each year that gravity fails to touch them. Seriously, I've got a halter-style maxi dress from H&M that I wear during the summer. It's got a little shelf bra but basically provides very little support and I always get compliments on my figure when I wear it. People generally think that I'm much younger than I am and I'm sure my breast size plays a part in that. I've never wanted implants but I do sometimes wish I could fill out even an A cup just to make bra shopping easier (I'm probably a 34AA but have never owned a bra in that size, all my current bras are just stretchy Hanes bras in a size small). Checking out this thread and the itty bitty blog have inspired me to search for nicer bras that will fit me though!


I'm glad my post was helpful to some of you ladies. As for your partner who may lean towards bigger breasts all I have to say is make your little breasts unforgettable (if you catch my drift). See them as a strength not a weakness, chances are he probably leans towards larger ones out of habit.
And yes! Pretty well fitting underwear will make you feel a lot better smile.gif I'm sorry you've been feeling a little self conscious but I bet women would kill for your figure and he clearly wants YOU otherwise he would have gone with those big busted girls that 'turn his head'. Don't shortchange yourself lovely you're no runner up prize!

As for mely I'm glad you've found someone that appreciates your body and I hope that you gain enough self confidence and empowerment to realise that you're gorgeous regardless of what a guy thinks and FYI I'm a pear shaped itty bitty owner and I've never had a complaint or any problem in finding someone to love my body. It's all about confidence lovely!
rod2029
I gave the methods inside a full test run over 6 weeks and with 2 weeks I had already started to notice a difference. It took just under 4 weeks for me to gain one cup size taking me from a B cup to a C cup. find more information http://goo.gl/psCTq
Shaz
Thank for the encouragement Skindeep. I'm realizing that I may have a chip on my shoulder about the boob size thing with this new guy. It's just that the guys I have been with most of my dating life have been such dedicated ass/leg men that it's kind of strange to be with one who appears to be so into breasts. I do have a funny story about my prejudgment though. We went to a nice Italian restaurant a few months ago, on the way home he mentioned that there was a photo of a woman in lingerie in the men's room. He was trying to describe what the woman was wearing but didn't know any terms, "some kind of Victoria's Secret-type thing" was all he could say and that the woman was "beautiful!" I immediately started to assume that the model must be busty for him to get so interested in the picture and of course I was annoyed that he told me on the way home so that I couldn't go sneak a peek myself. Well, last night we ended up at the same restaurant and when I went to the restroom of course I stuck my head in the men's room to see the photo for myself. What I saw was a very beautiful photo from maybe the 70s or 80s of a Michelle Pfeiffer type, small breasted woman wearing tap pants and a sheer bustier. It made me happy to see that he had liked this picture, even though I know intellectually that him liking a picture of a woman in lingerie has nothing to do with his attraction to me.

Oh, and I stopped by Target today and was browsing through their mix-and-match bikini pieces. Just like last summer, the size small tops and medium and large size bottoms are disappearing leaving lots of size large tops and small bottoms. Meaning: there are lots of pear-shaped women with small breasts out there!
hoffbyhoff
It surprised me that I would get such comments too, but pretty much because I can't understand why anyone would consciously be so cruel. Surely they must know how hurtful their words are, but they act as though I'm being oversensitive. If I dare get upset, then obviously I'm the crazy one.
vibrator
I'm sorry to hear all of these struggles everyone is having. I've had my own with breast cancer. Just know that it does get better with time. God Bless everyone.
bourneportal
May the lord shine upon you, bless you.
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