Pardon me but i thought that feminism was against porn for it's exploitation of women?
Now I'll totally contradict what I just said and tell you that I have watched porn with my man several times. You need to change your view on it - it's not degrading to women, it's taking your God made roles and amplifying them in a sexual fantasy situation.
It's just as much a turn on for me as it is for the man. I don't watch the free stuff however and I find the pay per view is much higher quality with better video editing and the like. These things matter to woman, nice costumes, good lighting and pretty makeup make a better visual treat for us ladies. Also you need to have sex toys
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Once of the greatest ways for a couple to join an intimate moment, I highly advice the high quality porn and a sex toy, I promise you'll have a night to remember forever!
If you'd like a recommendation, The Pirates series is the best quality production I;ve ever seen, it;s Hollywood movie caliber and the acting is not totally atrocious!