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domiuno
Happy Valentines Day and Best Wishes to All. D1
auralpoison
GREAT GOOGLY MOOGLY!

Okay, so I bought some new bras for the new summer maxi dresses I bought, yeah? A convertible/plunge style for the lower cut ones & a regular convertible style for the halter necks, etc.

Get this, though. I tried the plunge one on. Now, I know my boobs are swollen right now due to hormones. But I was spilling out in the most OBSCENE fashion. I was alone in my room & was embarrassed for my clothes & furniture seeing the boob-o-rama. So I reach in to do some adjusting & what the ever living motherfuck do I feel in the cup? I whipped the thing off & there was an AIR CHICKEN CUTLET in each cup!!!!! Because a woman with a DD bust needs to add two inches to her bustline! These people are getting out of control with the boobie enhancers!
Persiflager
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The extra-special DD+ bras in Marks & Spencer, that I think we're supposed to be super-grateful for, only come with padding. And it's not even removable! I have no idea what thinking is behind this.
strongirl
I just popped in from the smallies thread...just thought I'd add that Victorias Secret has these padded pushup bra's that add 2 cup sizes (supposedly) and they are available in sizes up to a 38DD. Now far be it from me to say when bigger is no longer better but really? How many 38DD women actually WANT to add 2 cup sizes? Maybe more than I'd guess, I dunno!
Persiflager
I often see that with plunge bras - I think it's easier for the manufacturers than properly engineering a bra to hoist heavy boobies into the desired front-and-central position. Fools!

On a slightly different note, I've recently bought a non-underwired bra for the first time in ..... ooh, about 12 years? I wear it around the house and it is spectacularly comfortable!
hellotampon
Hmmm. I was actually thinking of getting a plunge bra up until now. I don't understand the padding either. I like molded cup bras- they're more supportive and they last waaaaay longer than the ones with just thin material.

I lost a couple pounds in the beginning of the summer, from being more active, i guess, and it all came off my boobs. I went from a 32DDD to a 32D. I feel so much more comfortable now. And as I gain the weight back it seems to be appearing on my thighs. I'm not fond of the cellulite but at the same time i don't want to complain. I feel much more proportional and I've always admired pear shapes. I know that people gain and lose weight in predetermined patterns, but the body continues to change throughout the early 20s right? So perhaps this isn't actually all in my head.
enfermera
QUOTE(hellotampon @ Aug 12 2010, 09:39 AM) *
I know that people gain and lose weight in predetermined patterns, but the body continues to change throughout the early 20s right? So perhaps this isn't actually all in my head.



my sister went up a full cup size in her early-to-mid 20's, without any other weight re-distribution, so yeah, i think so. i think that's when i started getting actual hips, too.
ketto
It's interesting that you like the molded cups, tampon. I've never been able to wear them. They make me look totally ridiculous and sit in the wrong spot. I keep trying to buy different bras but I'm totally stuck on this plain black Fantasie one. No molded cups, just simple, black, good coverage, amazing support, and oh-so-comfortable.

I'd really like to have a couple of plunge style ones or something a little sexier but I'm still having a lot of trouble finding things that aren't 'full coverage' here and I NEED to try them on before buying.c

Glad to hear things are more managable for you, tampon. I never lose or gain any breast weight. I remember in high school complaining about a sore back once and someone said, "Couldn't you just lose some weight?" Besides being totally insulting it definitely doesn't work that way for everyone.

For those who have back problems related to breast weight, what kind of pain do you get? I go to physio for my back issues but I still have some ongoing problems, mainly in my lower back when I'm standing for more than 40 minutes and my shoulder blades.
auralpoison
I don't know if anybody else has been watching the Sheyla Hershey debacle, but I've been reading about it since June: World's Largest Implants Removed. Honestly, I've just been waiting to see how long before the complications started to kill this woman because it was inevitable. Seriously. The human body is just not built to sustain that level of physical trauma.

Persiflager
Further to conversation in small-booby thread....

Why do we think that we 'owe' anyone a certain level of physical attractiveness? That we have to tally our features and trade them off to get an acceptable score?

I've often had this train of thought....

Boo, she's so pretty! (+5 for her). Though she's wearing too much make-up (-1 for her). And amazing legs (+3 for her). But I've got much better breasts (+6 for me)... shit, I lose! Better switch to a low-cut top.

And I've often 'comforted' friends with.... "But you've got great boobs/legs/hair!" (if they're fat/large-breasted/I'm really short of other compliments).

Bugger this. My short, pudgy legs aren't compensated for by my boobs - they're fine as they are! I don't owe anyone good legs! And I don't have to get a better haircut to make up for having let my stomach get squishy because the beauty bailiff is not going to break down my door to collect on the debt I owe the world! THE WORLD WILL GET ALONG FINE! THERE WILL NOT BE A BEAUTY DEFICIT!

*goes for a quiet sit-down to calm down*
buttercups
Exactly Persi! Why the hell do we women always feel the need to compensate and to make comparisons to other women. I've broken things down just the same way that you described and in the end I always lose. It's just not worth it. I'm trying really hard now to not get jealous of other women for having things that I don't and just to appreciate others' beauty not at the expense of my own. I have to admit that whenever I'm around beautiful, large-breasted women it always makes me feel insecure and like I'm a baby or something. I feel like they look so much more mature compared to me, my bf must be looking at them and wondering what went wrong with his gf, blah blah blah. It is all such bullshit. I wish there was an easy way to remedy this kind of thinking but I don't really think there is. I know that for myself I'm just going to try hard to recognize "ok, that woman has a nice rack or whatever" and leave out the "wow, compared to that woman I look completely pathetic" that I usually follow it up with. We really don't have to compensate for our supposed "inadequacies" and need to stop comparing ourselves to others.

And of course we don't owe men ANYTHING! We shouldn't feel ashamed of our bodies or feel this need to "compensate" for one body part with another because we feel like we owe someone. complete BS!
missladyj
I wanted to share a link to a site that makes clothes specifically for women with larger breasts. This is an issue for me at work where I am not trying to show off my rack. The clothes are a little pricey and I would spend the money on it if I was presenting at a conference or something like that.

http://carissarose.com/

auralpoison
eShakti will work with you, too. Everything I've ever gotten from them has been splendid & cut to my specific boobie needs.

I also like Ureshii. They do beautiful, soft, comfy CLASSY clothes & they will talk measurements with you, it may cost you a few extra bucks if you are also a plus sized gal.

I dunno if this makes me weird or what, but I don't really compare myself to other women nor do I rate my body parts. Sure, I could stand to lose a few, but at the end of the day I like me anyway I am. And anybody that's ever been with me has been with me because they liked me, not just *parts* of me. As many fucked up ideas as my dad put into my head, he also instilled in me a sense of confidence within myself that is innate & goddamn near constant. I guess I don't compare because I'm me, they are them & that ain't gonna change. *shrugs*

Last weekend I sat in a chair at McCarran & people watched for hours. It's amazing to me the remarkable number of shapes, sizes, & body types that we human beings come in. All circles & blobs & lines lumped together to make a person. Amazing.

Also, because it was Las Vegas, I saw more weird looking fake GIANT gazongas than you could shake a stick at. One woman in partick had had enough face work done so that she looked like she was smelling something awful & her poor boobs! She had the hard, round variety of implants & they rode really low on her frame. She wore a bra that was clearly not the right size, she was spilling out of said bra & you could see every bit because she was wearing a sheer turtleneck. And she was probably in her late fifties. I just kept wondering what she was gonna look like when she's seventy.

Saw a couple of wicked hair systems on some men; a guy with cotton candy hair, gold medallion necklace, ID bracelet & pinkie ring watched my bags for me while I got a water. He was wearing a green shirt with a big collar, too. It was awesome!
genghis cunt
My body issues have been overwhelming me since last night.

I got a "body shaper" from Target that was supposed to smoothe out my tummy/hips/inner thighs so my clothe could look a little better. It was a 2X. I couldn't get it past my ass.

I laid down to have a little mope but then move on, but my boyfriend sat down to try to make me feel better. He told me I am a "big beautiful woman." I immediately got my dinner out of my stomach. I had to leave work early today because I can't stop crying. I have been in denial over how I look, pretending I am happy with myself. But I am tired of being unable to find clothes and getting treated like I am invisible.

The confusing part is that I think women who are my size are hot. I respect all women, no matter the size, but skinny girls aren't for me. I'm unable to accept my body even though I like thick girls.

I know this has nothing to do with anything, I just needed to get this out.
DistrictLady
QUOTE(tatiana @ May 14 2006, 12:03 AM) *
Hey dustyrosekisses: go to bravissimo.com. They sell bathing suits and bikinis. They are a UK company but they ship to the US. I'm thinking of ordering from them, if I could figure out what size I am. I've been trying the bra size calculators and they are off by two sizes in either direction. Arrrrgh!


Thanks for the bravissimo.com tip!
I'm ordering as I type!
auralpoison
QUOTE(genghis cunt @ Oct 22 2010, 01:29 PM) *
I got a "body shaper" from Target that was supposed to smoothe out my tummy/hips/inner thighs so my clothes could look a little better. It was a 2X. I couldn't get it past my ass.


Okay, so OT advice.

You probably gave up too soon! If you can get a "body shaper" on properly in under thirty minutes without popping a major blood vessel/taking several five minute breaks, you're a fucking goddess.

Keep in mind that you have to work those things on from the bottom up: When we work them on we tend to pull from the top when all the extra stretch is in the thighs. It's also a good idea to work from the inside as well, placing your hands inside the garment & working them upwards. I would also advise putting on the shaper somewhere where you can lie down & having something nearby that you can put your foot up on like a chair to keep from having the dreaded crotch/thigh gapping.

Also, I am assuming you bought ASSETS by Sara Blakely (the cheaper, uglier sister of SPANX), yes? The sizing on shapers is different than clothing, so while you may wear a 2X clothing-wise, it does not mean you wear a 2X in ASSETS. You may have simply purchased the wrong size.

/derail
genghis cunt
Thank you for the tips! But now they are sounding like a lot of work. Maybe I will just let my ass jiggle.
auralpoison
That is pretty much my position on the matter.
auralpoison
*bump*
genghis cunt
*booty bump*
auralpoison
Did you maybe mean *boobie bump*? Hee! biggrin.gif
bekiboo
Hi girls,
I am a younger women, (but i wouldn't consider myself a teen.) I have a rather annoying bra size (32DD to 32E, depending on the brand, and style.) I recently was at Victoria Secret and found that they only carry one bra in my size, and it looked like something that my grandma would wear. I want to feel beautiful, and i want to have something new for my fiance to see. I also have a limited budget for bras, so i try to keep it under $60 dolars. Any suggestions?

Thanks,
Bekiboo
bekiboo
QUOTE(bekiboo @ Dec 16 2010, 11:27 AM) *
Hi girls,
I am a younger women, (but i wouldn't consider myself a teen.) I have a rather annoying bra size (32DD to 32E, depending on the brand, and style.) I recently was at Victoria Secret and found that they only carry one bra in my size, and it looked like something that my grandma would wear. I want to feel beautiful, and i want to have something new for my fiance to see. I also have a limited budget for bras, so i try to keep it under $60 dolars. Any suggestions?

Thanks,
Bekiboo


(P.S.) I am a very small frame, about 120 pounds, and i am only 5'4"
ketto
Hey Bekiboo,

I'm 4'11, 115lbs and I wear a 30E. Honestly, if you can find a bit of extra money then shell it out for something that will fit properly and give you real support. I'm in Canada and have only been to a Victoria's Secret once and found they didn't know how to size and none of what they carried had good support. I can't speak for other US stores though.

In my city, I looked up specialty lingerie shops in the yellowpages and now I have one committed place I shop at. It's a very professional shop where women will come into the room to figure out exactly what fit you need. I usually spend at least $100 on a bra, but I usually only buy at most 2 a year unless there's a sale. I have a brand and style of choice and I believe I'm now on my 6th bra in that style. It's sooooo comfortable, sits exactly where it should, and isn't pokey, scratchy, or uncomfortable in any way and it's a nice, smooth, black sexy one too. Over the years I've collected some lacey ones as well, but I usually only wear them for special occasions because they're not as comfortable as my black ones.

I'm 25 but I first started shopping there when I was 19 and I would never go back to the cheap bras they sell at most places in the mall. I now have a lot of back, neck, and shoulder issues so having good support is #1 for me, even if it is a bit pricier.
bekiboo
QUOTE(ketto @ Dec 16 2010, 02:44 PM) *
Hey Bekiboo,

I'm 4'11, 115lbs and I wear a 30E. Honestly, if you can find a bit of extra money then shell it out for something that will fit properly and give you real support. I'm in Canada and have only been to a Victoria's Secret once and found they didn't know how to size and none of what they carried had good support. I can't speak for other US stores though.

In my city, I looked up specialty lingerie shops in the yellowpages and now I have one committed place I shop at. It's a very professional shop where women will come into the room to figure out exactly what fit you need. I usually spend at least $100 on a bra, but I usually only buy at most 2 a year unless there's a sale. I have a brand and style of choice and I believe I'm now on my 6th bra in that style. It's sooooo comfortable, sits exactly where it should, and isn't pokey, scratchy, or uncomfortable in any way and it's a nice, smooth, black sexy one too. Over the years I've collected some lacey ones as well, but I usually only wear them for special occasions because they're not as comfortable as my black ones.

I'm 25 but I first started shopping there when I was 19 and I would never go back to the cheap bras they sell at most places in the mall. I now have a lot of back, neck, and shoulder issues so having good support is #1 for me, even if it is a bit pricier.


Thanks for the advise! I'm glad to have advise from someone who understands. laugh.gif
sweetcharms
ok guys i feel a little out of place posting here but maybe someone has some words of wisdom for me ^^

i posted a longer intro in the intros thread so i'll try to keep it shorter here. // i dont exactly have large breasts, actually im real petite with about c cup i guess...

but. when i was pregnant i had to use a breast pump for a long time and my breasts got totally stretched out, like to my belly button. reeeeeeeeally really bad.

so. they are not exactly large they are just, floopy. // VERYYYY floopy. they get in my way continually and i have to hold myself still with my hands if i even want to go faster than a walk and stuff, it drives me nuts.

and, its very new to me... i am used to being kinda petite and i feel all wrong.

so now im in my first real hot sexual relationship in ten years, and boy can i use it. im with a super hottie and super sweetie and really having a good time. BUT MY BREASTS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.

and of course, my lover is a total breast man, just by coincidence. im quite surprised what a problem its being, not really for him, he says its no big deal and i think he means it, but....

im having a super hard time being sexual this way.. they flop around and make awkward noises and get it my way and aren't very sensitive, and they are NOT SEXY. they are just not sexy. i want to be sexy with them for him and for me, and do all the stuff im used to doing, and im just not finding myself able to pull it off. //

maybe even if they were just really large, at least i could feel voluptuous, but they are not, they are like empty water balloons!! i do not feel voluptuous! i do not feel delicoius! i do not feel sexy.

and i seriously dont know how to get that back. i try just wearing a bra during sex, but, you know. but there is no skin contact.. i want him to be able to suck on em and all that!! i want him to enjoy me that way, i enjoy that, and i miss that a lot. and its really just not all working very well. i want him to do all that stuff, but i dont feel tempting in those ways and i dont know how to be that anymore.

help.. ANYONE? how do you feel sexy with your breasts if they are on the larger side and stuff to the point where they get in your way? what do you during sex to make yourself feel sexy? how do you keep them out of your way? can you be in all the positions you like? do you wear clothes during sex to hold yourself still? do you have problems with them not being very sensitive, and how do you deal with that?

im talking it through with him right now and can use perspective. i really want to tell him, i want him to want me you know, i want him to want me that way, and enjoy me that way.. i personally like that, it feels physically and emotionally good to me and i want that stuff.. and i can feel he wants it too.. but i can't really blame him for not being turned on, by something that isn't really a turn on....... he might truly love me, but that doesn't make him be turned on by something that, really isn't much of a turn on // what do you guys think of this?

any perspective would be totally great as we are working through this right now. by the way the rest of our sex life is out of this world. he is very turned on by me in other ways and we have great sex. i just want him to do more stuff with my breasts too and i dont feel super tempting there.

im going to also post in the general sex thread too.
thanks all so much.
sweetcharms












genghis cunt
My breasts are not exactly saggy. They are just weird. I'm a plus size chick, so my breasts are more fat than breast tissue. I have side boob, and my nipples point down and out. I guess I'm ready to feed a baby.

I was always super awkward about it, and that's when I was a little smaller and they looked better. Compared to porn stars and lingerie models, my boobs are ugly. But good news! I don't have to get naked for a living! And you really can't be embarassed about your body when you like to do the crazy stuff I'm into. At some point, you have to say, this is me, take it or leave it.

Good shortcut, though, is to wear a bra during sex. A sheer fabric cup or something lacy will help you feel pretty, and leaving something on is sexy to me. Plus, it's a good handle for your partner.

I grew up hearing how ugly I am. I'm 26 with stretch marks, body hair, rackne, scars, lots of moles, and lots of "smush." But it's me. If the sex is good enough, he shouldn't be noticing anyways.
sweetcharms
genghis cunt! i love your username so much. ^^ sorry about what people told you, that really sucks. // im super glad you enjoy yourself anyhow. ^^

thanks so much for writing and helping :Hug:

wanted to update, we finally actually talked about it on christmas of all things. ><

i told him i just wasnt feeling sure how to be sexy this way.. that i hadn't dealt with this before. and it was being very weird for me.. and that it wasn't that i didn't think i could =be= sexy, just that, i hadn't found the way yet exactly. and that, it wasn't just about the looks - it really makes a difference how everything feels and that i was just feeling frustrated sexually about it......

also. sex for me has always sort of been a refuge in my life, i dont have a lot of areas where i feel personal power and competent and safe and free, and there i do. so to have a big problem there in my 'safe space' where im used to feeling always free and powerful and competent, is being really difficult for me cause those places are rare in my life.

also.. im not exactly the sort of person to have flings or whatnot.. i tend to make super strong bonds that last a long time. so -- its a little harder for me to say, oh just another guy no big deal. its rare for me to be in love and when i am its usually pretty serious..

so.. he was pretty understanding so far, and i guess we have a lot more talking and stuff to do and all... basically he told me he prefers it when i don't wear anything, and that he feels he can get off on a 'wide variety of things' .. // so we talked a little about what did or didn't turn both of us on and then we had some pretty awesome sex.

i guess it maybe will never be like it used to be which is a bit of grief process i guess! (unless i can save up enough for a breast lift, i still want one oh well, only $2000 to go im very close!) but at least for now.. he told me he will play with them more, he said he wasn't because he wasn't sure how i felt about it and he didin't want to make me feel 'any worse'. so i told him, screw that, i just want good sex. like you said, if we can have good sex anyway, that is 9/10 of my problem solved.

i still feel ridiculous when i bend over ^^ but, you know. if he is ok with it and wants to play with them and be turned on about it, and we can laugh about it, that helps a lot. so thats as far as we've got so far.


glad someone else has tried the bra idea... // he says he prefers the skin, so i guess i will give that a go for now.

just as an aside though: is it just me or is this true for everyone, i feel the breasts being played with adds a lot to the sexual experience.. it seems to amplify the feelings in all the rest of my body by many factors. this is something i didn't really pay attention to until i couldn't do it the same anymore. im a little curious now if other women also feel that. //

anyway, i will still stick around as this is ongoing and its refreshing to be around all of you.

thanks for the reply it meant a lot. :HUG:



happy holidays & such.





missladyj
sweetcharms,

while saving up for a breast lift I would suggest doing exersizes that work your pectorals which are muscles under the breast push ups are awesome as well. it may provide some added support. plus it is fun to show off how your boobs bounce up when you flex them.
buttercups
Hi sweetcharms,

I usually post in the small breasted support thread, cause yeah I'm like 99.9% F. L. A. T., but I found that I can relate a lot to what you said even though we have opposite problems here. I don't feel sexy either because of my breasts and I am so ashamed of my body that I don't even want my bf to see my chest naked, much less touch it- even though I am extremely sensitive there. I feel the same way as you, that even though my bf might truly love me, how can he get turned on by my complete lack of a chest? I have struggled with this for many years and I've decided that it's finally time to just give it up already! I think it's great that you talked to your bf about it and opened up to him and let him know what you want. He doesn't want you to wear a bra during sex, he wants to be able to feel your body and he IS turned on by you- that just proves it! You are a beautiful, sexy woman and feeling sexy has to start with you. I don't like my body either, but I've decided that I have to learn to love it. The more you accept yourself, the sexier you will feel. Why not try some things that will make you feel better about your body overall? I started running and I'm going to start doing work-out DVDs, and exercising has helped improve my body image a lot. No exercising has not made my chest any larger, and they might not make yours back to how they were, but it will improve how you see yourself, I promise. When you are active and in touch with your body, you will just feel better about being in that body and start to feel like the hot mama you are! The issue here is not with your man, who is undoubtedly attracted to you and completely in love with you and your body, the issue here is with how you see yourself- and that is something that I believe can be changed for the better.

Hope this helps at least a little bit.

<3 your flatchested sister, buttercups
sweetcharms
thank you so very very much you guys! :HUG:

i totally and completely agree with you buttercups, its so much about how you feel, and actually, he actually said this to me, quite a bit... //

i was looking at myself today trying to figure out a way to describe to you all how truly awful it is.. and then i thought.. god.. maybe it isn't that awful.....// its really true they are extremely floopy and very ungraceful and im not exaggerating.. its -not- just they are a little unperky or something..// but maybe.. because he is so young (hes 27 you know and im in my 40's) and really super hot, and i know that he really extra loves breasts.. (hes a breast man for sure) and because im so very, very attracted to him and am so invested in being with him..... and he such a good lover and good man and i dont want to lose him.. maybe im subconsciously being extra hard on myself ..

yes they really do flop around and make unsexy noises and the nipples do not point forward in any way, and the skin is super loose, which all makes them a lot less sensitive and thats just a big bummer...... but.. i do think theres a lot of room for me to improve how i see myself..... especially if, i can get them more involved in feeling good.. because the big frustration was, if they are not sexy, then he wont want to play with them or be turned on by them. // and i really just want them to be played with and for that to be a turn on.

also.. i totally agree about all the exercise stuff. i do i have some pilates & stretches and stuff on tape that i really love.. (and recommend) and every time i do those, i really do feel better and better.... so i will pay more attention to doing that more. i also do pushups already.. and if they might help at all, i will surely do more.

HOWEVER NEW DEVELOPMENT.

you guys are not EVER EVER gonna believe what has happened now.

somehow during the course of these conversations, he has decided to take this time to confess to me that he has a KINK FOR WEARING WOMENS PANTIES. oh my god. (among numerous other kinks weve already discussed) and apparently a pretty hot kink, too from the way he describes it.. weve been together a year and this is the first ive heard of that.

sooooooooo. today i went out and spent the money i was going to spend on bras, on a number of lacy panties for us to play with.. (and one nice smooth bra that is skin colored hehe) hey if it turns him on im all about it. i love it when he is turned on.

soooo im really, really looking forward to what the times coming up might bring. // he is out of town this week, boy i cannot wait until he comes back now.

this is being a really fascinating discussion and im so thankful for all your input. my recent stress has left me with no girlfriends at all and im realizing how unbalanced it is making my life around topics like this. your guys input is making a big difference for me.

much love to you all!!!!!! & sexy lacy panties oh yeah. thanks again so much.










strongirl
Wow, I love how things can take an unpredictable turn! I also post mostly in the small busties thread but I do check here from time to time and Sweetcharms, your posts make some great reading and the last is particularly uplifting! Buttercups offered some great advice - none of us are ever going to be physically "perfect" in our own eyes but that's no reason not to have fun in bed! And gosh, your recent discovery about this new "kink" is pretty exciting! I love your attitude about it - no wonder this guy wants to be your lover. His "ability to be turned on by a wide variety of things" (I think that's how you put it) and your ability to embrace a new kink with enthusiasm bode very very well for a long and happy erotic union.

Floopy tits...flat tits...who the hell cares, let's just have great sex! Get busy, sisters! smile.gif
sweetcharms
ok everyone: the update. (im kind of feeling like this might be better in the general sex thread or something, so if this is off topic hopefully someone will let me know)

oh my boyfriend is so brilliant... so.. i went and got a bunch of little panties and made a special spot in my drawer for them and stuff.

he came home from his trip and we had all sorts of lovely fun... and honestly, what was really brilliant about it and what im not sure if he did somehow on purpose.. which wouldn't surprise me.. was that.. the thing is.. considering im almost 45, the fact that i still can wear a thong made out of a stripe of lace, and look really extremely good in it, actually made me feel an awful lot better about the rest of myself.... //

and i wonder, brilliant as my bf is, if that wasn't a little bit his plan. // (oh, and thank you strongirl for the nice comments too.) XD

we still have a lot of talking to do about the breast thing though. and buttercups, honestly if it helps you feel any better, please know there is at least one girl seriously wishing she was you right now.. // and im really not kidding. i would give anything to be sensitive and small again, so i could be on top and move freely and all of that. literally, anything. // so.. i envy you. and i hope you have some great sex and enjoy yourself for me!!! cause i sure do wish that i was you right now.

he and i still have a lot of talking to do. its stil incredibly frustrating for me.// i am trying what i can to look at myself differently and i did quite a lot of exercise which really really did make me feel super better so thanks for reminding me.... i will continue doing all of that.

but the truth is.. we still have a lot to figure out about how to make these things 'work' for sex and that will be ongoing. much as i try to have a good attitude the truth is that having hot sex with my breasts this way is like trying to talk after coming out of the dentist office, or trying to walk with your foot asleep.. nothing moves right and everything is half numb.... it really truly is very annoying in a physical way, and its very hard to get them to actually feel pleasurable... so there is still going to be a lot of figuring out how to work with that.

in the meantime though.. panties = big thumbs up ^^ (really big) and thank you guys all so very much for your encouragement and stuff. // thank you genghis cunt for being my first friend here. hope you are doing well.

hope everyone's new years is going to be really, really wonderful & thanks again so much for your encouragement.. :}}}}





genghis cunt
Ugh, I wish I had this kind of a sex life!
sweetcharms
before this i had no sex for ten years! :<< //
buttercups
Hey sweetcharms,

So glad to hear that you're finding ways to feel sexy! Also, thanks so much but I think you should know that I would trade places with you right now if I had the chance! I don't have small breasts- I have virtually no breast tissue, so anything that would set my chest apart from a man's I would more than welcome haha. I don't care if they hang down to my ankles I just want breasts, so I guess we have to realize that the grass is always greener and try to love what we got right?

"Floopy tits...flat tits...who the hell cares, let's just have great sex! Get busy, sisters! " - strongirl I absolutely loves this, right on!

Hope you keep having the great sex and enjoying your body more every day!

<3 buttercups
finallybigbusted
I'm new here. I packed on a lot of weight so I could finally be a big breasted woman. From the time I began to develop, I dreamed of being a full figured woman, but being very small framed, I figured it would never happen. I always stayed somewhere in the mid-30's but couldn't get any bigger, so I packed on 30 pounds of fat and voila, I've FINALLY achieved my lifelong dream of being a big breasted woman, a good soild 40D! Now the problem is that I have got to lose those 30 pounds of fat because it's causing a host of medical problems like high cholesterol and carrying close to half my body weight in fat, but I do not want to lose my beautiful big breasts in the process. I'm proud of the fact that I am finally big breasted and have something to show off, but not with 30 pounds of fat hanging on my waist and hips and giving me a pear shaped body.

I've also discovered that bras and swimsuits for women with big breasts are nearly impossible to find. Does anybody have any suggestions about where a 40D sized woman can find decent bras and bathing suits? As long as I am sporting all this fat around my midsection, until I lose 30 or so pounds, I want to hide it. As it stands, I've been wearing big baggy clothes to hide the fat I gained and I want to get back to my old slender body but keep the nice big breasts I worked so hard to gain weight to achieve. Anybody know any secrets as to how to do that?

I'm THRILLED to have full round breasts, my lifelong dream, but the price paid to get 'em is too steep. Gaining weight by eating a high fat diet so my breasts would grow has caused too many problems. I also found out that I now have a higher risk of breast cancer from eating a high fat diet to gain weight and since my mom recently had breast cancer, now I'm REALLY freaked out because my risk has suddenly gotten frighteningly high. My knees are also killing me, something that, given how much time I spend on my feet each day, isn't fun. I wish I could have found a more natural way to achieve my big breasts, but oh, well, now that I've got them, I want to lose weight but keep them even though I am discovering the hell of being big breasted while shopping for bras and bathing suits.
susantan
QUOTE(missladyj @ Dec 28 2010, 10:01 AM) *
sweetcharms,

while saving up for a breast lift I would suggest doing exersizes that work your pectorals which are muscles under the breast push ups are awesome as well. it may provide some added support. plus it is fun to show off how your boobs bounce up when you flex them.


I agree with the importance of breast exercise after the surgery. I think some surgeons will suggest some breast massage techniques. In the same way, it also prevents capsular contractures that happen when the scar capsule around your breast implant/lift tightens. Your surgeon will specify the duration and frequency of this massage.
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ThisThisThis
I don't know if this thread gets looked at much, but I've been having some problems lately finding a comfortable bra since I gained, like, uh 5 cup sizes. I find separation really uncomfortable... I'm a 34-36 G-H, and I really, really don't want a bunch of wire (or really anything else) between my breasts. I also need a lot of support. This bra was my favorite, but I'm way too big for it now http://www.fredericks.com/Legendary_Lace_C...default,pd.html ...anyone have ideas?
domiuno
Helpful Overall Breast Care
The following are tips & hints that will hopefully be simple, understable, and easy to apply,practicably. I am a Lifetime Lover of Large Breasted Women,yet these tips can be used by any woman;regardless of Cup size.
First; ensure U perform your monthly Breast exam. this is your first line of defense to protect your Breast. unless you've had previous issues,ensure you get a Mammogram,every 1 to 2 years after age 40.
A majority of Breast issues occur when women wear the improper size bra.A proper bar fitting is Crucial. there should be shops in just about every area that provide bra fittings;typically ,free of charge. I'VE taken ladies to a local Lane Bryant.
to perform your own fitting;make sure you purchase a Seamstress tape measure. they cost about $3 to $5. they are available at Wal-Mart.
measure under the breast with the tape measure.if the whole number is a 1/4",then measure down to the next whole number.if the number is at a 1/2",then go up to the next whole number.
if your measurement for your band is below 28",then add 3". if your measurement is 28" and above,then add 5" to get your correct band size.
for Cup size;use the tape measure to measure around the fullest part of the bust.same applies as above;1/4" down or 1/2" go the next whole number up.
next,deduct your Band size measurement from your Cup size measurement.the difference will equal your cup size; 1"=A, 2"=B,3"=C,4"=D,etc.
for accuracy;bend over at the waste,make sure your back is parallel to the floor,then measure the fullest part of the bust.don't have to breathe in like your suppose to above;forgot to mention that.then do the same by deducting the Cup size from your Band Size.a helpful tool that is free is brasizecalculator.net
Large Breasted Women pay pricey amounts for there bras as there not as readily available as common,petite sizes. proper care is crucial,to get your moneys worth.
1)use a lingerie bag or a netted laundry bag .this prevents the bras from getting tangled.also ensure to hook the eyelets as to prevent the bras from getting caught on anything in the washer.
2)if available,use the handwash or delicate cycle on your washer.place the water temp. at the cold setting.hot water,wears down the bra material and causes shrinkage. if a delicate/handwash cycle is not available,it's best to wash your bras by hand.
3)start delicate cycle;do not add detergent,but add a 1/2 cup of white vinegar to the cycle.let agitate for a few minutes then stop cycle.let bras soak for about 15 minutes.white vinegar whitens without the harshness and residue of bleach and also kills bacteria and eliminates odors.when 15 minutes are done then continue wash cycle. when completed;run another rinse cycle to be sure you have got all the vinegar out of your wash load. start the delicate cycle again;then add a 1/2 cup baking soda,good for odors,brightening along with your delicate detergent such as Woolite or something comparable such as shampoo or hypo allergenic(sensitive skin) dish soap(not as harsh as a typical laundry detergent but will suffice), if Woolite is not available.let wash cycle complete then run a last rinse cycle to get all the baking soda out of your bras.
4)DO not Use a Dryer for your Bras. this literally destroys them.AIR DRY ONLY!
Heat rash under Large Breast:;
under certain conditions,moist,warm conditions,a heat rash can develop. the moisture due to perspiration,heat & humid enviroment,along with a Poor Fitting Bra,can lead to a rash similar to that of a yeast infection.
To minimize or avoid acquiring a rash;try the following:
after showering;make sure you pat dry under the breast well.you want to pat as opposed to wipe to minimize stripping the body of its natural oils.ensure there completely dry before continuing.
Next;apply a light coat of baby powder or baking soda under the breast. I caution against using cornstarch! some said it has worked wonders;others have said that it actually feeds the infection.best to avoid cornstarch;stick to the baby powder or baking soda(also eliminates odors).
Some women have stated they place extra material under the breast also,to help keep that area dry.I'm assuming something along the lines of a handkerchief or maybe a cut piece of an Ace Bandage(my guess is that this material might be a better absorbent for moisture).let me know if this works. then continue on as usual.
For those that have already got the rash;try the following.
wash as above;then add either one of the following,Monistat vaginal cream has been said to be the best at curing such a rash;again it's similar to a yeast infection under the breast.a diaper rash cream that contains Zinc Oxide will also help to clear up the rash under the breast and its also safe enough to use on babys.Antifungal creams are also available.I'd try the first two methods first. If these don't help or if it worsens;consult a Physician or Dermatologist.Also,ensure you check your blood sugar levels. High blood sugar levels can also cause infection that breeds infection.make sure your blood sugar levels are typically between 100 to120 this is considered about normal.
Wearing a Cotton Bra can also help in very high temperatures.the Cotton fabric allows better Air Circulation as opposed to other materials.

Improper Bra Fit can also cause rash;a proper bra fit is very important.
if the bra is loose;can cause rubbing. a bra that is to tight can also cause rash also.if you have a proper sized bra and still have some rubbing or chafing;try the following.most products listed below were for use by both men and women.some offered a female version.most of the the following are easy to use,and non staining,with some as easily removed as using soap and water.check manufactures instructions.
Sportshield(made for athletes)considered to be the best available. prevents rubbing and chafing in virtually all parts of the body.it's available on line for about $12.should be available in most sporting goods stores also.very slick with little odor.apply between bra the skin that it comes in contact with.should feel and see a Huge difference.
Bodyglide(was basically second best) is similar as above but this one offers a Bodyglide for Her stick.online it was running about $8.
Mission 5 hour anti chafe cream or stick; was another that got good reviews.same as above and it ran $8 to $10.this ones claim to fame was that it had a higher melting point. no one complained about the aboves melting point or efficacy,but this is really the only supposed difference.
For Maximum Rash or Chafing;try the following:
EVERSTRIDE(similar to above mentioned)this is the product you want to use if you have an Extreme rash.aside from the Anti-friction,Anti-Chafing benefits the above can help with. this product claims it can Help Restore,Dry,Cracked,Chaffed skin;even to the point of Saddle sores and Blistering.this product claims it is safe enough for pregnant women to use.
Petroleum Jelly;not as effective as above,but can get some benefit.use Caution as it is difficult to wash from clothing and not as effective as the other Anti -Friction,Chafing products. basically a temporary fix.
In Conclusion;These are ONLY Tips that may Hopefully Help.This is in NO Way sought to Repalce Professional Advice.
Things to remember;
1)Proper Bra Fitting is CRITICAL.
2)Perform Breast Health Exams when Prescribed.As well as taking care of your overall Health Regularly.
3)Take steps to Avoid getting a Heat Rash/Yeast Infection.
4)If Home Remedies don't work;SEEK Professional Help IMMEDIATELY!
5)Maintain Your PRICEY Bras by Caring for them Correctly.
6)Some of the Products mentioned above were what I found to be the best or well known.Do Your OWN research and see what's Best for YOU!
Alot of the above mentioned issues were either brought up here or else where.MY Love of Large BREASTED Women;inspired Me to compile the best,most useful information available(on the web) without having to search this site,that site. regarding these subjects;in a simple,easy to use format. Not only Just for them,but for all women.
Your Respectful Responses are Appreciated,
D1
cafayzieg
QUOTE(buttercups @ Dec 28 2010, 01:38 PM) *
Hi sweetcharms,

I usually post in the small breasted support thread, cause yeah I'm like 99.9% F. L. A. T., but I found that I can relate a lot to what you said even though we have opposite problems here. I don't feel sexy either because of my breasts and I am so ashamed of my body that I don't even want my bf to see my chest naked, much less touch it- even though I am extremely sensitive there. I feel the same way as you, that even though my bf might truly love me, how can he get turned on by my complete lack of a chest? I have struggled with this for many years and I've decided that it's finally time to just give it up already! I think it's great that you talked to your bf about it and opened up to him and let him know what you want. He doesn't want you to wear a bra during sex, he wants to be able to feel your body and he IS turned on by you- that just proves it! You are a beautiful, sexy woman and feeling sexy has to start with you. I don't like my body either, but I've decided that I have to learn to love it. The more you accept yourself, the sexier you will feel. Why not try some things that will make you feel better about your body overall? I started running and I'm going to start doing work-out DVDs, and exercising has helped improve my body image a lot. No exercising has not made my chest any larger, and they might not make yours back to how they were, but it will improve how you see yourself, I promise. When you are active and in touch with your body, you will just feel better about being in that body and start to feel like the hot mama you are! The issue here is not with your man, who is undoubtedly attracted to you and completely in love with you and your body, the issue here is with how you see yourself- and that is something that I believe can be changed for the better.

Hope this helps at least a little bit.

<3 your flatchested sister, buttercups


thanks a lot. i agree with you.
kate123456
I can feel that you love your husband very much. You can try some breast enhancement surgery,it will make you more sexy.
http://www.kantecare.com/
webshophoff
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sevierxiu572
Ah, I really like sexy clothes also want to try to get closer to my husband, I hope this is useful and can make us more love.
cut
I also need large breasts, and I support it.But my chest is very small, sometimes on the outside, I am humbled, I had to wear a wig, so that others do not do not know me.I buy it on www.hatsay.com tongue.gif
nadben
It's hard to pick a size if we are not a standard sized. I had some problem getting the right dresses for my bridesmaids because they all had different figures. So I tried online and ordered 6 custom made dress from azazie. All the girls were very happy because the dresses were so flattering. I just sent the girls' measurements, and azazie had done the rest of the job.
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