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candycane_girl
Okay, I decided to bring back this thread because everybody likes a little girl on girl action, right?

Anyhoo, for me personally, I just had my very first experience with a lady and it was amazing. We had a lot of fun together and I can't wait to see her again. My only issue is that I really want to give her an even better experience next time. I know some people say that it should be easier for a woman to give pleasure because we know what feels good but on the other hand, every girl is different. And obviously, I don't have much experience. So, if anyone is willing to give me some tips they would be greatly appreciated.

In the meantime, why not just share your experiences?
candycane_girl
Okay, I'm bumping this thread just because. Hasn't anyone been having some good lesbian sex lately? I know I have. It's a whole new experience for me and I'm really enjoying it. Of course, it probably helps that the girl I've been sleeping with is amazing!
treehugger
Well, I hate to see candycane girl be the ONLY person with the "balls" to post here...heh.

I lived in a lesbian relationship for six years. I only ever had an "encounter" with her and one other woman...so I don't really feel like I have any tips.

I actually wasn't a very good stereotypical "dyke" anyway.

Sorry I'm not much help! But I thought I'd lend a supportive hand!
LoveMyPugs
CCG-

I have asked some questions on this site and never gotten any response as well. I gave up for a while (a week or two) then came back and figured people might just not feel like talking about sex anymore. As for me I never get tired of talking about it.

As far as girl on girl well I've had no experience in that area. I have been with Mr. Pug for over 10 years and I can tell you that we were both virgins when we met. We have learned a lot about what we both like and we have done that by TALKING, LISTENING and WATCHING.

Use your senses and tantalize hers. You can always whisper to her “Does this feel good?” or just put her hands on the back of your head or on your hands and have her guide you a little.

Pay attention to her hips and the way she moves to tell if you’re doing something too soft or to hard. I can almost guarantee that if she likes something you’ll be able to tell by her movements or sounds she makes.

I know this stuff is probably obvious advice but it’s really all I have to offer. Hope this helps a little. She sounds great and I’m sure your doing just fine or better then you think you are.

Good Luck!

Pugs blink.gif
I wanna fuck
QUOTE(candycane_girl @ Sep 27 2006, 06:26 PM) *

Okay, I decided to bring back this thread because everybody likes a little girl on girl action, right?

Anyhoo, for me personally, I just had my very first experience with a lady and it was amazing. We had a lot of fun together and I can't wait to see her again. My only issue is that I really want to give her an even better experience next time. I know some people say that it should be easier for a woman to give pleasure because we know what feels good but on the other hand, every girl is different. And obviously, I don't have much experience. So, if anyone is willing to give me some tips they would be greatly appreciated.

In the meantime, why not just share your experiences?



I heve something here to help you out sis... I Wanna Fuck
candycane_girl
Ahh, it's nice to finally not be the only one posting in here.

I've had only a few sapphic experiences with my friend Sara but so far they've all been good. See, I think my earlier plea for tips is just that I've always wanted to be one of those people that is kind of...known for being a good lover. Anyway, here's our story. I met Sara earlier this year. We became friends even though she spent her summer at home away from my city. She's now back for her last semester at the local university. We kept joking about lesbian experiences but then decided that we would actually want to have one together.

I was so nervous when I got to her house, I hadn't been that nervous with anyone since high school! Anyway, we sat around for like, 4 hours watching movies and finally we ended up in her room. Things got pretty hot and heavy, very quickly, but it was all good. There was lots of licking and kissing and she just happened to have a double ended dildo on hand. Needless to say, it was an amazing night.
LoveMyPugs
CCG-

As one woman who can openly admit to having sexual fantasies about my female friends occasionally let me just say that your description of your first night with Sara was hot. Good job! *High five*. In the back of my mind I have always wanted to bring another woman into the picture with Mr. Pug and me but I know myself and I think it would damage our relationship. I’m so into Mr. Pug that I wouldn’t be able to enjoy the night and let it go. I’d obsess over it. One friend of ours in very young (18) and she thinks of Mr. Pug as a big brother and when she jumps on him or plays with him I know she means no harm but my stomach and my heart still lurch forward and ping with jealousy. I think it keeps me hot for him personally. Cause whenever I feel like that I just want to go home and fuck him to death and make him say he’s mine. I’m sick I know!!! Good luck and keep us (me lol) posted.

Pug
superscience
Hey gals,

I'm not having sex right now (unless you count myself and a battery-powered friend), but I'm just glad to see some action going on in the lady-on-lady thread!

My ex-gf and I ordered the Feeldoe, and were pretty excited about it, and then we broke up before it came in. Ouch! So, it's still sitting in the packaging, waiting for next time...
candycane_girl
Hey, I'm just curious, what's a Feeldoe?
indigo_black1
CCG - It's a double-ended dildo.

Supersci - I didn't realise you were still knocking around the Lounge. We're missing you over in the Martha LJ! Get your cute lil queer butt over there. wink.gif You have much to catch up on and Heyiya mentioned you the other day so you are remembered and very much missed!
superscience
Shucks. I wasn't really around for a while, but have started dipping my toes in again lately. I'll go check out the Martha now!

Good to "see" you!

Back on topic, I saw the ex last night, we had fun, she made dinner, we drank wine, played games, laughed. Now I'm confused (and still really want to try out the Feeldoe)!

ps. the Feeldoe isn't just a double-ended dildo--it's a harness-free fuck machine (or, that's what my friend told me)!
candycane_girl
Aha, that's what Sara and I used during our experiences together only I didn't know it had a special name. In the meantime, I haven't been having any sex at all, lesbian or straight. sad.gif
vetiver
Hello in here...I've barely posted anywhere except in "What I Ate", and not even there lately, but I happened to stop in here and figured I'd throw in my two cents. I consider myself a strongly female-oriented bisexual - this summer my straight relationship of almost two years fell apart. I had only gone back to men because I'd moved to a small town in PA where there was a severe lack of lesbians my age. I couldn't well be celibate, and the guy ended up being really cool. We're still friends. Anyhow, while it was breaking up I imported a good friend of mine from my hometown to come be my roommate and partner in crime. After a couple months it was obvious to me that this was the best thing I'd done in a while, because we got along so great and daily life just flowed along...and then - we rented Season 2 of the LWord. And bought beer. So there we are, watching naked Carmen and naked Shane and running out of beer and breaking into the last bit of tequila...and all of a sudden we're having sex. Good, bitey sex, apparently, but I don't remember. I blacked out. But fear not, because a few nights later we went out for her birthday and got it on again, and then the rest of that weekend we threw scruples to the wind. It took about a month after that for me to let go of being afraid of ruining our friendship and of the idea that I needed to be single for a while after just breaking up with my ex, but things were too good to put them aside. We are so compatible, so happy, so attracted to each other.

Which brings me to imparting some tips. My favorite is using mild pain to increase stimulation - what she does to me is pinch my inner thighs right before I'm going to come when she's going down on me, what I do to her is bite her inner thighs in between her orgasms to change the kind of stimulation. She can go again and again, I can only pop off 2...she's convinced that'll change, but I dunno. Anyways, pinch, bite, however softly you need to, but seeing the little bruises the next day is sweet. Wrestling is my other favorite. It's fucking hot. Wrestle until one of you wins, and then be a little rough, a little domineering. My tip for going down is the wetter the better, and use the broad part of your tongue rather than the point towards the end - the orgasm is much stronger when more ground is covered. Also love getting fingered or fisted from behind, - you can masturbate simultaneously if you can't get off without clit stim - and I also think it's HOT to lie there and masturbate while I'm rubbing her too, on top of me with her tits in my face.

Adieu! Hope that was helpful!
superscience
I went to a women's masturbation workshop last night--so fun! No actual masturbation took place, but we did all talk about experiences, learn some tidbits, share stories, check out some products and have a great time!

I bought the Blue Thumper - a small vibrator with a wired remote that you can set to tease you. It speeds up, stops, speeds up again, stops, etc. I thought it might be annoying, but I actually *loved* it. (I've been coming too fast lately, so this helped to stretch it out a little bit!).

I also bought the a dyke porn with two videos on it: "Hard Love" and "How To Fuck in High Heels". I watched the first two scenes from "Hard Love" last night, and it's great!

Also, picked up a hilarious new euphamism for masturbation (I've never liked that word): "firing the surgeon general". Based on Dr. Jocelyn Elders being fired by Clinton as Surgeon General in the 90s for the mere mention of masturbation as a healthy alternative to more risky sexual behaviours for young people. Dear Dr. Elders, I will support you in this way--forever!
reddragon
Hello, I'm new here smile.gif. And I'm envious of your hot sex life. I've been celibate (not by choice!) for a few months, then I finally met a cute girl I'm interested in. We've had three dates and made out like crazy, but no sex. She says she wants to wait (how long? I don't know) so as to get to know me better first. I'm ok with waiting for now, though I don't know how long I will be. This is a new situation for me, as sex usually happens on the 2nd or 3rd date. Now, on the one hand, I'm free to have sex with anyone else (we're both poly), but on the other hand, I can't keep making out with her because it's too frustrating to stop short of having sex. But I like her and I want to keep seeing her. Any thoughts or suggestions?

QUOTE(vetiver @ Nov 8 2006, 08:24 AM) *

weekend we threw scruples to the wind. It took about a month after that for me to let go of being afraid of ruining our friendship and of the idea that I needed to be single for a while after just breaking up with my ex, but things were too good to put them aside. We are so compatible, so happy, so attracted to each other.

Erica4U
What is more sexier than women making love to one another! First of all the feminine body is a work of art! Then imagine the soft supple skin and soft scents along with knowledge of what is a turn on and what really feels good and it is very exciting to watch and or participate! I love it! Invite me sometime!
anna k
I dreamed that I kissed a girl, tongues and all. I had gone down on her, and we kissed, and it all felt so erotic and real. Sometimes I have those dreams where I have sex with a girl, but I'm hetero in real life. It's like indulging unconcious fantasies in my dreamworld.
andraja
QUOTE(anna k @ Dec 16 2006, 04:35 PM) *

I dreamed that I kissed a girl, tongues and all. I had gone down on her, and we kissed, and it all felt so erotic and real. Sometimes I have those dreams where I have sex with a girl, but I'm hetero in real life. It's like indulging unconcious fantasies in my dreamworld.


Perhaps that's your unconscious mind telling you to indulge and experiment. That was a beautifully put post by the way.
kickitkickitkickit
I'll never have sex with another woman. That is the one thing sexually that I've never been curious about nor want to try.
go_kayte
I'm wondering if there's a thread (or could be one if anyone was interested) on general queer issues (not just sex as this one is) and coming out support, etc. I tried searching but I didn't find anything.
_octinoxate
Kayte, wow, you're right: there is actually no general queerdom thread in this whole lounge! Weird. I certainly think it would be a nice addition to the BUST forums, useful to many people (maybe me included). I guess the general protocol is to propose it in the community forum, right? But if you want to go ahead and start it (where would it be? the mating game, I suppose?) you're already got my vote of support. Probably see ya there smile.gif
go_kayte
Octinoxate, I bumped the "boys? girls? both?" thread (about bisexuality) in mating game for that purpose. Although it's not general queer stuff I thought it could be derailed for such for the time being unless someone else wanted to start a new thread (not me! too much pressure to think of a good name!)
potbunny
I've always been bi-curious for as far back as I can remember. I find women beautiful, and gentle. I've just never had the opportuity to be with a woman.
konphusion26
Haha, dreams is how it starts babe!!!!! I used to have similar dreams, till i decided to act on them. Biggest mistake I ever made (twice) lmao... while it started off good, both relationships ended up terrible. I'm now married (to a man of course) - but I find myself still peeking at women every now and then. I had to get out of that lifestyle due to my faith. However, I believe that part of me will always be there. I would NEVER act on it though. I've learned my lesson the hard way. So, if you decide to act on it one day, weigh the consequences. You may find, Like I did, that the few moments of pleasure are not worth the pain and heartache afterwards!! Good luck.


QUOTE(anna k @ Dec 16 2006, 04:35 PM) *
I dreamed that I kissed a girl, tongues and all. I had gone down on her, and we kissed, and it all felt so erotic and real. Sometimes I have those dreams where I have sex with a girl, but I'm hetero in real life. It's like indulging unconcious fantasies in my dreamworld.

deschatsrouge
I had the opposite experience as Kon. I was leery of having sex with my best friend, I didn't want to make what we had all weird. But it was worth the risk, it was the best decision I ever made. I'm now in a truly fulfilling relationship.
sexysandee
I had my first experience with a girl last night and it was hot, but I think my lack of experience with women was evident....any advice sad.gif
baffledsheep
I would say be honest... don't try to give any signs that you're more experienced than you are - she likes you already if she's sleeping with you so maybe remember that and just relax? I find women are a lot more complex than men sexually because there just seems to be more you can do with a woman! Sometimes I will just look at her and ask her what she wants (being careful in how i say it - wouldn't want her to think i was saying it in frustration with her!) and if you're both honest and comfortable enough with each other she might feel like she can tell you exactly what and where and how.... Learning new things can be really good fun, especially the practice part smile.gif Also, notice how she touches you - it's probably how she wants to be touched!

I just discovered this new kinda thing and am really taken by surprise that i never knew about it before - basically one girl on her back and the other on top and just sort of, manouver into a position where their whole parts are touching each other and it's really soft...and wet..... mmmmmmmmmm. Has anyone else had this experience?
deschatsrouge
QUOTE(baffledsheep @ Dec 11 2007, 10:44 AM) *
I just discovered this new kinda thing and am really taken by surprise that i never knew about it before - basically one girl on her back and the other on top and just sort of, manouver into a position where their whole parts are touching each other and it's really soft...and wet..... mmmmmmmmmm. Has anyone else had this experience?


I've been meaning to try it with the Missus.
sexysandee
YUMMY!!! tongue.gif

We did it again last night and it was soooo good!!!
She is new to all this too, we have boyfriends that work at night and we were both getting very horny.
We were both very curious and are having fun with it.

Today at work my pussy has been throbbing all day tongue.gif

Thanks for the advice wink.gif
baffledsheep
yeah it's so cool when you're at work or something and then you think of all the new stuff you've been doing and how exciting it all is and you get that sort of shooting sensation in all the right places!

sigh, it's been a while since i had sex. I am missing it! sad.gif Glad someone's getting it though! x
konphusion26
The dream I had last night:

I stepped aboard the plane and took my seat not realizing that this flight would be the strangest one I've ever been on. The plane was headed to Africa, to this warm and tropical oasis in the desert, full of animals and exotic sights. But, when we got there and people started unloading from the plane-- thats when I realized there were nothing but the sexiest, most beautiful lesbians I've ever seen on this flight. I was surrounded by luscious ladies of all shapes, colors, and sizes. Oh my gosh, there was this one woman I'd seen on this reality dating show that I developed a girl crush on. She was even more stunning in this dream. We got to the hotel where we were staying and she was my roommate for the trip. As we were settling in, she stood in front of me getting undressed for her shower and asked me to help. I wasted no time, but just as I approached her and tried to touch her I WOKE UP!!!!! I was so mad!

I kinda miss being with women. It was a lovely experience. Well, the physical part of it anyway LOL
sexysandee
I have been a confused mess for the past couple of weeks. When I finally feel like I have figured things out someone comes back into my life to tell me to think again. My "friend" we shall call her "Y" for this. Y and I have had our little fun experimenting and I thought for the most part it was over. We were both a little frustrated with the people that we were seeing so we just needed a little time away from them. The other night my phone was acting a little crazy and I didn't get my texts until the next morning. Y had sent me 8 texts. She wanted me, then some saying she was sorry for whatever she had done to upset me. I sent her a message back saying that I was a little sick and my phone was acting strange. She said didn't know how many other girls I was talking to, but that she wanted to be number 1. I have no clue where that came from, I told her she was the only one....other then the man that I have been talking to. Last night she wouldn't stop......she kept sending me texts saying that she wanted to taste my pussy and that she wanted me NOW!!!...... I want to be with her too, but she scared me a little.
neurotic.nelly
umm... wrong thread
lopie313
wow no one has been in here for almost 2 years.....
Allison-Shine
QUOTE(lopie313 @ Feb 25 2009, 08:45 PM) *
wow no one has been in here for almost 2 years.....


Yes indeed, strange...is everyone completely straight?
angie_21
lol given all of the talk about penises on the other threads, I would guess yes. I did have an interesting dream a few nights ago about one of my best friends, but that probably doesn't count.
epinephrine
I had gay sex last night! Really, really gay lesbian sex full of pussy! Wooo!





...What else is there to say, really?
candycane_girl
I actually started this thread a few years ago when I experimented with a friend. However, after that experience I realized that I'm pretty damn straight. I don't mind making out and heavy petting with girls but I don't really enjoy anything past that.
girl_logic
The first time I was with a girl I wasn't really with her, I was just doing a girl-girl show for a customer. I want to again, but I'm not sure how. I remember her lying on the bed under me and I was thinking "I can touch here? Really? God, so incredibly soft" I wanted to eat her up, every part of her, but I couldn't because it wasn't real, and she's straight.
angie_21
candycane, I've never tried it but that is always how I imagine it would turn out if I did. I've had a few interesting dreams, and I've always been quite curious. Women are of course very beautiful and sexy, and kissing and touching is sexy pretty much no matter what. But once it got down to the real dirty stuff, I don't think I would make a very good lesbian at all. Getting all worked up and then going down there and not finding a nice hard boy-bit would just be disappointing for me.
girl_logic
QUOTE(konphusion26 @ Nov 23 2007, 09:17 PM) *
Haha, dreams is how it starts babe!!!!! I used to have similar dreams, till i decided to act on them. Biggest mistake I ever made (twice) lmao... while it started off good, both relationships ended up terrible. I'm now married (to a man of course) - but I find myself still peeking at women every now and then. I had to get out of that lifestyle due to my faith. However, I believe that part of me will always be there. I would NEVER act on it though. I've learned my lesson the hard way. So, if you decide to act on it one day, weigh the consequences. You may find, Like I did, that the few moments of pleasure are not worth the pain and heartache afterwards!! Good luck.



Just scrolling back through this conversation here. Konphusion, not to get into your bidness or anything, but you and your husband should make the time to watch this documentary: For The Bible Tells Me So It caused a lot of conversation in the girl logic household and probably will in yours too!
Allison-Shine
QUOTE(epinephrine @ Mar 24 2009, 03:26 AM) *
I had gay sex last night! Really, really gay lesbian sex full of pussy! Wooo!
...What else is there to say, really?


Ummm, its not that simple, that's not what its all about. dry.gif
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